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Personalized Initial Birthstone Bar Necklace, Solid Gold Custom Charm Cluster
$284.98+ $356.22+
Personalized Initial & Birthstone Necklace in 14K or 8K Solid Gold, set with a natural birthstone — an initial, a real gemstone and an engraved bar on one chain, made in our family atelier in Kahramanmaraş, Turkey. Real solid gold, never plated.
▪ THE PIECE
Three pieces hanging together: a small round disc with your initial, a bezel-set natural birthstone, and a slim vertical bar engraved with whatever you choose. They sit close on the chain and move as one — a little cluster rather than three separate pendants.
▪ THREE THINGS TO CHOOSE
— Initial: your letter, engraved on the disc
— Birthstone: pick the month, we set that stone
— Bar: a name, a date, a word — or leave it plain
You choose each one separately at checkout, and everything is made after you order.
▪ CHOOSE YOUR GOLD
— 14K Solid Gold — our signature: richest colour, heirloom weight
— 8K Solid Gold — the same real gold, a gentler price
Both are genuine solid gold: never plated, never gold-filled, never hollow.
▪ REAL STONES, NOT IMITATION
The birthstone is a natural gemstone, cut and set by hand — not cubic zirconia, not glass, not a simulant. A real garnet in January, a real amethyst in February, a real emerald in May.
Because they come out of the ground rather than a machine, no two are identical: the depth of colour varies a little from stone to stone, and natural stones can carry tiny internal marks. That is not a flaw — it is the difference between a real stone and a manufactured one, and it is the reason yours will not look exactly like the photograph.
January — Garnet
February — Amethyst
March — Aquamarine
April — Lab grown Diamond
May — Emerald
June — Pearl
July — Ruby
August — Peridot
September — Sapphire
October — Opal
November — Citrine
December — Turquoise
▪ DETAILS
Chain: solid gold cable chain with lobster clasp and extender — 40 cm / 16", 45 cm / 18" or 50 cm / 20"
Finish: high polish
Hallmarked 14K / 8K
▪ ONE FOR EACH PERSON
An initial and a birthstone is the shortest way to say someone's name without writing it. Mothers order one for each child. Couples order two, each carrying the other's month. Because everything is made to order, no two go out the same.
▪ FROM OUR ATELIER
✓ Real solid gold (never plated or filled)
✓ Handmade in Kahramanmaraş, Turkey
✓ Arrives in our TheDayi gift box with a handwritten card
✓ Free worldwide shipping
✓ Import duties included for US buyers at checkout
Want more than one initial, or several birthstones on one chain? Message me — I answer personally.
— Mustafa, TheDAYI Atelier
Shipping from Türkiye
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Returns & Exchanges
Returns & exchanges accepted within 30 days
Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.
I gladly accept cancellations
Request a cancellation within: 12 hours of purchase
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1. Information We Collect
To fulfil your order, you must provide us with certain information (which you authorized Etsy to provide to us), such as your name, email address, postal address, payment information, and the details of the product that you’re ordering. Since we specialize in custom jewelry, this also includes any specific names, initials, dates, or personal messages you provide for engraving and personalization purposes. You may also choose to provide us with additional personal information if you contact us directly for a custom order request.
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thedayigold@gmail.com
Frequently Asked Questions
Custom and personalized orders
Every piece is made to order in our family atelier from solid 8K or 14K gold—never plated or gold-filled. Enter the name or text and the requested length in the personalization box. We can work in Latin, Arabic, Farsi, and Cyrillic scripts. For custom calligraphy, we send a design preview for approval before production. Please check spelling and measurements carefully before approving the preview.
Care instructions
To protect the shine and the delicate custom lettering, remove your jewelry before swimming, showering, exercising, or sleeping. Avoid perfume, lotion, chlorine, bleach, and household chemicals. Wipe gently with a soft, dry cloth and store separately in its box to prevent scratches or chain tangles. If your piece needs professional cleaning or repair, message us before using home cleaning solutions.
Do charms include a chain, and will they fit my chain?
Each charm listing shows the available options. Choose “Charm Only” if you already have a compatible chain or charm holder, or “With Necklace Chain” for a ready-to-wear solid gold necklace. Where offered, chain lengths are 40 cm / 16", 45 cm / 18" and 50 cm / 20"; 45 cm is used if no length is selected. Bail and jump-ring size can vary by design. Before ordering Charm Only, message us with the thickness and end-fitting size of your chain and we will confirm compatibility.